Speak respectfully
Your student respects your judgment. A non-judgmental tone keeps the door open.
Parents & Family
You're part of the prevention team
It's important to speak with your student about hazing, because it can occur within any student group or organization. Consistent communication is one of the most powerful tools to prevent it.
Start the Talk
Start the conversation
Be persistent
Move the conversation forward. Check in regularly, not just once.
Understand the pull
Belonging matters. Acknowledge the desire to fit in, and be there before harm happens.
Report right away
If you suspect hazing, make a report. You don't need proof to raise a concern.
Questions to ask your student
- Are you in the process of joining an organization or team?
- How much time do you spend on new-member activities?
- Are you having trouble keeping up with academics?
- Are you being deprived of anything, such as sleep?
- What would you tell me about a hazing incident?
- Do you feel safe and respected in your organization?
Trust Your Instincts
Warning signs to watch for
No single sign means hazing is happening, but several together are worth a closer conversation.
Sudden secrecy
Your student stops sharing details about meetings or activities.
Unexplained injuries
Bruises, exhaustion, or changes in how they look or move.
Becoming isolated
Pulling away from family, friends, or their usual support.
Mood or sleep changes
New anxiety, irritability, or disrupted sleeping and eating habits.
Drop in grades
Activities consuming all their time and hurting coursework.
Odd hours & errands
Always being asked to run errands or perform tasks at all hours.
You're Not Alone
How GSU supports your student
- Confidential care, advising, and recovery resources
- A team of Student Affairs staff ready to help
- Anonymous reporting through the G Safe app
- Transparent reporting that holds organizations accountable
Worried about your student? Reach out.
You can make a report anonymously, or talk it through with the Dean of Students office.